Find Courtship using your Radiant Feminine Energy

Understanding Courtship

The courtship phase begins when a man clearly expresses his intentions for a future with you.

For most people, this intention may be a desire for marriage. As a feminine woman, the courtship phase is about you allowing a man to win your love.

court /kort/ - to be involved with romantically, typically with the intention of marriage.

synonyms: woo, chase, pursue, seek the company of

How to Use Feminine Energy to Find Courtship

1) Make clear intentions to everyone involved.

Feminine energy is intentional. Let everyone who is willing to listen know what you are looking for. You should definitely have clarified this to yourself first to allow you be able to express it to another person.

Your friends should also know or how else can they be supportive of your goals, if you have never told them what they are? Coworkers, neighbors, and family friends too should be made aware that you are available for courtship.

The more times you tell the story of what kind of partner you are looking for, the faster you call it into your life with your own voice.

2) Become the wifey; the good thing; the woman you dream of

This is the internal work! After expressing your intention, you have to ask yourself every day “how can I head further in this direction” aka “how can I create this reality?”

My father would always tell me that people do not turn on/off like a light switch. I think he meant that they don’t change instantly. This stage is about radical self-awareness and personal growth.

It requires a willingness to recognize what you have been doing and take ownership of the fact that it isn’t working. There must be a willingness to change and a hunger for growth.

3) Become luminous

This is the external work. There is so much here. First, there is letting go of things that drain your radiance, energy or positive power. The next step is diving deeper into things that offer you pleasure and joy to increase your personal radiance.

There has to be the glow; the glow of a happy, healthy, radiant woman is so enticing. She is lit from the inside because she sits in her own authenticity and it shone on her like a spotlight.

This woman is ready to be found.