How to manifest a loving relationship
- cindyonyema1
- May 16, 2024
- 3 min read
Keys to Manifesting Love
I have been lucky enough to manifest love easily and readily. Quickly and intensely. Blame my Sagittarius nature for running full speed toward my desires, leaving no space for excuses and reasons why my desires should not be forthcoming.
I started blogging to share my own feminine journey. Tasting and cultivating different feminine attributes to find my final form and attract my life partner. The journey has taken me far and wide.
But this post is all about manifesting love. How I did it? How I’ve done it? And how I advise it should be done. Though, there is no one way. I will continue to share with the hopes of restoration of the black family through the vehicle that is black love.
As we have been taught to hate ourselves, so to have we taken on the role of enemies to one another. A scheme of the powers that be and continue to be if we allow them.

Astrology
Astrology has been around for thousands of years. Not endorsed and taught like any one religious modality. Rather gathered in observations of practitioners and fans. Astrology is living like the planets, galaxy, and the little ants humans show up as in such a broad and holy perspective. Look at your birth chart, not like a doctor’s prescription, but with the curiosity that asks, what is here for me?
Does this sound like my nature? Do I appreciate and like these things about myself? Astrology is only the beginning of the deep soul-searching required to escape the matrix of being who you’ve been told to be and seek the truth of who you are. Your intended cannot find you whilst you are still hiding.
Learn your chart. Learn your triggers. Find out what true compatibility will look like for you and yours because it will definitely look different than what you’ve been told. It is a truth for you to find.
Willingness to try, be, change
Willingness is a huge one. As we attract and magnetize our intended, we must recognize and respect that the union will ask us of something we were unwilling to give/do before. If you were meant to stay the same, there would be no growth. You cannot say you want a relationship, and still act like you want to be single.
Because the actions will manifest far before a decree with no energy. When two people come together, there are times where we stretch to accommodate our partner. There are times when our partner grows to meet us at our point of need. And all of this flexing and forming is what solidifies and nourishes the union. The contribution on one another’s behalf, some will call it sacrifice.
We are taught the opposite. Do not change. You shouldn’t have to change. The truth is we are always changing, for good or for bad. Hardening or learning to be more flexible. And finding your intended will change you, and you will want to be better for yourself and for your union.
Role Models
Manifestation and visualization go hand in hand. Find couples who you admire and watch how they interact. Social media is a great tool for this. No longer should you worry about not having anyone in your area. Look to couples who demonstrate the dynamic you are looking for.
Watch the dance of union play out so that you may understand your role better. Instagram is good for that. Not to teach you, but to model theirs for you. So you can see and know what is possible. Watch out though because perception (pictures) is not always reality.
Let me know if you would like more insight on this topic.




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